Why are birthdays so important? The Book of Job says, “Man,
who is born of woman, is short-lived and fun of turmoil. He comes forth like a
flower and withers. He also flees like a shadow and does not remain.” (Job
14:1-2) Later it says, “Since his days are determined, the number of his months
is with You (referring to God); and his limits You have set so that he cannot
pass.” (Job 14:5) That’s a pretty negative view. Later in the book, Job’s wife,
because of the suffering that had befallen him, advised Job to curse the day he
was born so that God would take him. (In Old Testament times, it was assumed
that the gift of life was of ultimate value since it was a gift from God.
Therefore, to curse the day one was born was to reject not only the gift, but
God as well!)
As we fast forward to the 21st Century, the celebration of a
birthday is a big thing. Anne and I are going to see Amy and family in order to
celebrate Olivia’s birthday. Children’s birthdays in New York City are big
events. This year, Olivia is having a bowling party! Last year, Amelia took
some friends to Broadway. Children may be oblivious to the divine importance of
birthdays; but, it is likely that many adults today choose to focus on other
things at the annual remembrance of one’s birth. In fact, it has been quite a
common thing to hear for the last 50 years that one simply wants to “quit
having birthdays.” It doesn’t mean to abandon life. It simply means that one
does not want to be reminded of getting older.
Friends, I had rather get older than to stop the process!
And, my birthday (many months away) is a big deal to me. I am grateful for
life; and, I view life as a divine gift as I believe God intended. A few years
ago, Amy gave me a birthday party when I turned 75. When she told her friends
in NYC, some said, “Does someone stay with him? Is he able to get about?” To
which Amy declared, “He drives a Corvette and is so busy I can’t catch him on
the phone!”
Until recently, I was almost frustrated to turn out the
light at night. I didn’t want to give up on the day. I wanted to keep on
experiencing life—without interruption! Since then, I have begun to notice I am
able to do less than I did just a couple of years ago. I have accepted the fact
that I am older and weaker. But, I still have a passion for living—and I value
that passion, not just because I like what I do and where I am at this point in
my life. I also attribute that passion for living because I feel a partnership
with God. I believe that God is with me and wants the best for me. I hope you
share this passion for life with me!
Michael D. O’Bannon, Pastor